After graduation I didn't know what I wanted to do when I grew up so I started out attending SIUE and lasted one semester. It just didn't feel right, so I quit and decided to moved on. My lifelong friend Robyn (Cionko) had gone to Arlington Texas to a small private college, and after talking to her a few times, I decided to join her. My parents where going through a nasty divorce so I decided and see what Texas had to offer. Reluctantly, but my Dad finally agreed to finance the venture and I was on my way.Interior design was never something had I thought about, but I did enjoy the classes and found that I did well in school. I stayed there for a little over a year, but after awhile I felt I needed to be home to help my Mom and Dad cope with their divorce issues. Unfortunately, I did not finish my degree.
Upon my arrival home, my Dad asked what I wanted to do next. I didn't know. He was able to get me a job with Madison County which I did not care for and did not stay with very long. My Dad had bought the old Eddie's Tavern while I was away in Texas, so when he asked my to start doing the bookwork for him I took the opportunity of having my Dad as my boss, and quit at the county. However, I was still unsure of my place in the world.
A few years passed, and one evening while listening to a band my brother was in, I met Allen Harris. He had gone to North high school and played soccer there and at BAC, but was four years older than me so I didn't know him in high school. We hit if off instantly, were inseparable, and married six months later. I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I met Allen, but that was 26 years ago, and I wouldn't do it any differently if I had it to do all over again.
We have two daughters, Jolene and Kelly both of whom make our lives complete. They were both all around athletes, so our lives were filled with; smelly socks and tennis shoes, basketballs in the back yard complete with a hoop and court, cheer leading poms, tennis rackets and you name it. There were also catholic school functions, prom dresses, sister rivalry, boyfriend problems and many, many memories I will be forever grateful for. They are both well functioning young adults now, have graduated from college and are making there own path. We are very proud of both of them. I am currently helping (and paying for) Jolene's upcoming wedding and I'm sure Kelly will follow shortly.
I have worked as the bookkeeper at Granite City Township for the past 16 years. Prior to that, Allen and I had a general contracting business which we opened and closed after 10 years due to an injury Allen had while working as a paramedic/firefighter at the fire department in Granite. His injury consequently disabled him from the fire department. He has since taught for the past 15 years at Grigsby Middle School and was a soccer coach at the high school and with the Elks. We also recently began "flipping" houses as a past time after we became "empty nesters". It's a lot of work, but truly rewarding at the end of a project. I think design has always been my unknown passion because I have been involved with it in some capacity since I left college many years ago.
We currently live at Holiday Shores in Edwardsville in yet another home we built for ourselves. We love the lake and all it has to offer, and have met some good friends. We are looking forward to retirement and if all goes as planned that will be in seven short years. And yes, grandchildren will be great when the time comes, but for now we love to travel and simply hang out.
I have really enjoyed reading the blogs of others, and look forward to seeing old (not intended literally) friends at the reunion. It certainly doesn't seem possible that we have been out of school for 30 years ! ( I keep saying it, but it just doesn't sound right !) But for me, it's been a very good 30 years. I feel blessed to be able to sit here and write this blog, as some have not been so lucky. I also count my lucky stars that my life has turned out the way it has. Even with some adversity through the years, and a few regrets, I have to mimic my Dad's words as he said them just before he passed away..... "It's been a good run" .



